Why Do We Miss Someone

Well i Really dont have Much to Say About this one
Because we Do miss people who arnt around us
but what people are we tawking about ?
they can be our Dearest family members .. can be our dearest friends .. can be our loved ones .. can be our internet friends ..
but hey every category is linked with this Missing part.
When we start comunicating with our friends offcourse as we do have a big relation with our family members so i dont have to go for that part .. friends on the other hand .. if they suddenly vanished from our lives .. and they dont show up .. then we start recalling about the things that we have dont together..and when we do those things again but without them .. then the missing part comes to take place .. and yes here we start missing all the past happenings and all
Sometimes we really need a shoulder to cry for and theres no one out there for us. what to do when such situations comes around
i preffer not to go so deep but yes do think about it as it will heal pretty soon. dont ever panic ..just give urself Some time and u will find urself atleast Sumwhere . cuz if theres anyone out there whome u missing around and that person happens to be ur most special one .. and u Really cares for that person .. but they dont really give a ef to your thinkings ur emotions and feelings .. then why in the world they deserved to be missed around in ur heart or ur Mind..
i personally felt such things in my head and i really missed some people for nothing .. they didnt even care that why and how i missed them and gave away handsome amount of time .. just only for missing them on some ocassions ..
i mean what they’re doing rite now .. wondering about such things and all
but then i came to know that its not a good habbit of just Missing around such people and retain urself to one place .. stop urself for nothing.. paused life and all..
in different cases people have different thinkings and points ..
Family members should be missed for good if they’re not with us
Loved ones should be missed for good if they’re no more with us and they left us for good
but the Question still appears that Why do We miss them ?
yes one final answer should be .. We miss them because we want them back in Life for one more time and for good
i hope this should be enough for rite now
we should not stop our emotions and feelings about someone.. just let them be free.. and Remember we Can control our mind with our heart..
its just the matter of time ..
Because life isnt when .. life isnt then .. life is now ..

Rain According to me

Rain

Well Dont be so sarcastic im just gona write sumthing that will popup in my mind

and yes its raining rite now so yeah its a Good time to write summin relatively

Theres Nothing but Rain in Our Life

how Can We just ignore this thing ahh im sorry i just Said Thing.. Rain should be call a Galaxy
a Galaxy of planets more likely the Memories ..
so what i think is that when it Comes to Rain and it Rains on the Surface of we stand out in the Rain and we feel each and every Rain drop Just like Another World of Memories
isnt it reminds us the past memories that we have either with out Family members or the Loved ones
and when every drop touches the skin or the surface it creats the Era of Memories and they Just pops up from them
its just the matter of Time
the whole new situation but filled with the memories and they can be sad they can be bad they can be enchanting or maybe blind but anyway the fact remain the same that we do recall our memories in the rain and it does contain the power to recall memories all back together
so i personally love it because it just recall some of my good memories out from the past and i just go outside with open hands and just
walk into it and having no regrets about the past and moving forward to be the way i was and i am rite now
Rain is a part of life and life isnt when life isnt then life is now .. so when it rains just live it like once and for all ; )

This is Not My Valentine But Why ?

Just Ignore My Spell mistakes or bad grammar ;p

This is Not My Valentine
Never Was and Never Would
Another Valentine is Coming
Few More Days and There u have
Why People Go for Some one Really special
Are they Any special Persons out there ?
how do We think when We don’t know Anything About them
if we do but we don’t know whats in their Minds
and Sigh We still miss them
and Want them to be our Valentine for One Last time
but why ? why the heck we always fall apart
why the heck we always broke up with each other
every story that i have seen so far there’s sumthing not be cheer about
there’s always something to be sad about
and yes this valentine is not just the one but the same like all the previous ones
i know im just trying to gather all the Random thoughts to one place
but sigh again i cant do that
i cant control my feelings about Such Memories with Certain People
once i saw sumone whispering people are just people they just continue their selves to pretend sad and over re-acted and immature
but whats the fuss about why don’t we just move along
why dont we just move ahead
alone
yes why not we just accept the defeat and move ahead !
just one day left and i know i will find myself sumwhere around those sort of feelings and emotions
but for rite now im in my senses and i can tell u one thing
that We as in persons and People can Creat a brand new Life
We cant just Stop ourselves and our feelings and emotions for someone !
past is past and we should accept the glory of past and move to the future
and a really good one
a promising one
just think positively and there u have
Have ur faith on God Almighty
forget about Such ocassion like Valentine
they’re nothing but waste of time when ur Alone
Because trust me when we pretend ourselves to be alone we think like a Scientist or extremist ;s
so gather all your thoughts and pick sumthing creative and move
Life goes on
if ur Alone just dont give a damn Cuz when u walk just feel urself that ur the one whose Walking
as far as this valentine is concerned yes this is not for me
it never Was and never Would
untill u find ur True Love
and Love as in ur True Destination
i hope i made Atleast Some Sense
just like always
i suck anway !

Why Do People Fight ?

aite leme write sumthing here bout how and why do people fight ?

do we have any reasons for fighting ? any special purpose ? yes or no ? aite we’ll see as this story continues and guys my english is not so good and without grammar or vocabulary so jus ignore my mistakes ;p

there are several resons for the fighting thingie so lets see how many things do i have in my mind

i’ve seen some people who fight to protect for themeselves or their family , Friends or Belongings from attack..

Some people fight for their rights to make sure that they will have justice and freedom which they never have achieved as far as my thinking and observation by the way this topic also need some of my attention so ill write some good and bad things about it ;p

Some people fight to take over things that belongs to others such as land or money.. they don’t even care to take away lives from the loving persons and this is something shame and sad isnt it ?

Some people fight to defend something they strongly believe in such as their religion or political beliefs which is so off and on around us here in Pakistan but the thing is we as a Nation and as a Muslim country don’t have to fight with our own brothers and sisters and our own people because this is something un acceptable for educated and pioneers of Muslim countries that is We Pakistani’s…  anyway this topic need alot of attention and intentions so ill think about it writing some more good things seperetly aite ;s

Some people fight because they have been taught to hate others who are seen as different for example because of skin colors religions or customs etc ;s which is probably because of backwardness and illiteracy i think ;s

Some people fight because they have been told to by someone they trust or they have been told that it is their duty

Hmm so what i think when why do people fight ? Does anything Good every Come from it ? who actually wins ? the aggressor ?  or assailed ? Niether ! its whichever believes in chosing to fight that the victory be assured to them..the cause fought for is only right to those who chose to fight for it !

Every person wants to be right i want to be right at so many occasions no matter what happens i always wanted to win in every situation but yeah ! i did loose and i did lost alot of things and alot of Good things yeah ! but why would anyone want to be wrong ? why would anyone want to be wrong ? when sumone lose sumthing or lost sum war against anyone then the person re acts wheather abnormally or more carefull person ! anyway the fact is that if being right would mean fighting so be it !

this has always been a logical mentality of any willed human being .. our will can even bring us to go against our own innerselves or u can say umm well i have to look for the dictionery for the appropriate word ahh yes  our own brethren we United as one for one common cause and in the same time we also devided for one common cause ;s so i wana ask that what is that common cause ? that would cause sucha division !! it is once again the human will to be different rite ;s ?

wanting to stray from the norm and to take the un traveled path becomes a purpose which is supposidely wrong i think i mean as far as i think its totally wrong we shouldn’t go with the flow rather then experimenting our lives we should listen to some wise advice or some better thinking or any Good positive plans for the future purpose ;s anywho its getting weirdrer ;s and my vocabulary is so lame so i should focus on some points ;d

so i was telling you that we can’t takeoff down the new path at full speed rite ? other wise they will stumble repeatedly untill getting up is no longer possible but but but thats where the will comes back ;d the will to fight and keep going pushing on for what is right the strength of the will is shown by our actions or lack thereof ! all fights begin with underlying motives of differentiation between syndicates which leads to the perpetuation of the madness ! so what i think is just to hold our nerves and follow the right path and never loose hope for anything good and always be positive for whatever ur willing for thats how it works and thats how it goes

but yes fighting has different meanings so we should listen and learn about it and then apply to our lives i think this is enough for today ill keep coming up with better things here if i stay alive ;p

Long Distance Relationships never works

aite im tawkin about long distance relationships. well most of the ppl here today i mean now a days do think that this doesnt work at all. well it can be but there has to be the proper proceidure.

Long distance relationships are the toughest thing to handle. Separation causes differences and many complications. Unless you are linking up soon

Some people think that Its the best way to pass time as you wait for the right person hmm well maybe yes and maybe not.

aite i was researching about this long Distance relationship thingie

and i think i’ve found sum rules that can make the LDR ( Long Distance Relationship ) work.

Have A Relationship Plan For The Future

Know where you are heading. Have a light at the end of the tunnel.

What do you want to accomplish in you partnership? Have goals and a time frame when you want to be together. It is very important that you both have a hope to live for.

I think that this is the most common reason why some long distance relationships don’t work: they don’t have a plan, they just hope it will turn out right, that a miracle is going to happen. Certainly this also means you have to make sacrifices. At least one of you.

Realize that you most likely only have three options: she moves to him, he moves to her or both move to another place. Start talking about it as soon as you realize that you want to be together. The biggest mistake you can make is to hush it up.

Meet Regularly

Try to see each other every month at least once. Plan this ahead and include some activities, like town visits, museums, a weekend in a fancy hotel, etc. Make it a celebration, an explosion, something very special!

Soon this short meetings will be something you long for, something that you will align your life at.

Remember, you only get a real connection by touching, feeling and smelling a person. You don’t get scent with email or skype, or that initial wow you feel inside when you see your love.

So do everything you can to meet at least once a month.

Use Modern Technologies To Communicate

You need all the help you can get, so why not using the glorious benefits of a modern communication world:

• Get an e-mail account if you do not have one and write at least one e-mail to each other every day
• Use Skype or something similar to talk to each other for free. Believe me, it’s awesome watching a movie together while simultaneously talking on Skype
• Use Instant Messaging (I recommend the Yahoo Messenger)
• Use digital photographs and videos of your daily activities and send them via e-mail
• Use a webcam (this I can highly recommend)

Using all this electronic stuff will make it much easier for you both. Imagine how it used to be 100 years ago, when a letter used to take months.

Give Yourselves A Free Day

This one-sided communication – I mean with no physical interaction – can sometimes frustrate very intensively. It is possible that this frustration then comes to conflicts between you as an outlet for it. This could lead to misunderstandings that are very difficult to resolve per e-mail. Believe me one thing, you do not want to have a fight over e-mail or phone.

I then found it very helpful to insert a day or two without any communication. What then happens is that you miss each other very intensively and you usually find yourselves at a more higher level than you were before.

If the only way of interaction between you is canceled for a day or two, you will either progress or doubt. In any case you will know where you stand. This is also a good way to test your long distance relationship.

Write Extensive And Intimate E-mails

Open yourself up completely. Write about your inner state, what you are feeling, what you dream about, what you hope for. As a rule of guidance: describe in your e-mails your inner state and in your phone-calls your outer state. Writing is more intense than verbal communication and allows you to be more intimate. That will create a tighter bond between you.

The most important thing here is: be honest! Don’t pretend you are someone you are not. Don’t put yourself in a better light. Long distance relationships only have a chance if both are completely honest and congruent.

Send A Written Letter Once In A While

Do not underestimate the marvelous feeling, when you look in your letter box and find a letter from your love, open it and see his/her writing. This is a pleasure we often forget about in this modern times. Not to mention that it’s far more romantic.

Beware Of Jealousy

Jealousy is a very dangerous thing and can threaten every long distance relationship. Jealousy is commonly a lack of trust and understanding. It very often reveals insecurities and bad experiences in other relationships.

The keyword here is simply: trust. You cannot control and observe your partner, you only can have faith in your relationship and in the things you build together in the times you had. Hold on to that and never give in to that green eyed monster.

Jealousy is one of the most negative and destructive emotions there is! Listen to Shakespeare:

O, beware, my lord, of jealousy
It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock
The meat it feeds on; that cuckold lives in bliss
Who, certain of his fate, loves not his wronger
But, O, what damned minutes tells he o’er
Who dotes, yet doubts, suspects, yet strongly loves!

Avoid Dangerous “Situations”

As mentioned before, trust is essential. If you completely trust your partner and also have faith in your relationship, you can pretty much do what you want without endangering your relation. However, I nevertheless recommend avoiding some specific situations. Of course it depends on the person, but I would not date the opposite sex alone, or go to wild parties. Simply avoid temptations that could distract you from each other.

Better safe than sorry!

Never Loose Faith

Watch out, you will meet a lot of skepticism. People will tell you that long distance relationships never work, especially those who have had negative experiences about it. Don’t listen to them. People tend to negate things they failed on.

Listen to me: it can definitely work, but you both have to believe it.

Always Stay Positive

Always assume that your partner loves you and cares about you. Never assume anything negative, whether you read something in his/her e-mails or you disliked how he/she made a weird comment on something. Don’t interpret to much in it.

The problem with non-face-to-face communication is the lack of facial expression. It is so easy to misinterpret but unfortunately much harder to trust and stay positive.

I assure you, if something was wrong, you will know it.

As you can see, I’m definitely positive about long distance relationships. They expose ongoing life lessons, and prove that love, loyalty, and faith are the vital ingredients to a lasting relationship.

Have faith, have trust and you both will succeed in the end.

well apart from that i think people are jus people they can have crush they call fall in love again and again

and life never stops it just goes on and on

we should never loose hope i think

i had some stories some life memorable experiences and i will soon let u know about how relation ends and how can we stop ourselves not to break LDR’s

i know its not possible but i think most of the people wud agree that if we can control ourself then we may win other peoples and our love ones trust and hearts and etc

this post is not gona end i will keep updating this because this is just a starting ..

i had a long distance relationship and as u can see the status is pending and unknown..

anyway ill let u know how it went through by my life

i have some very good things to tell you

so yea have Faith and try to grab as much as u can from others.

Introduction

All Rite Salam and Hello To all of you People Out There .. My name is Akif and im Somewhere in Pakistan Living My Life .. just Like all the other Normal people .. u can Say Just another Random Guy is about to start his very first experience of blogging .. Dont Ask me how Confused i am Rite now but i needed to write a Few things here so Yeah here i am ..